Change, just a six letter word but capable of so much. Hello lovely people! My name is Mansi and I am back with my another post “BE THE CHANGE”. This section of writing is my favorite, “SOUL SPEAKS”.
Life is all about the reflection of choices we make. Isn’t it? The small choices contribute to changes we make at each step in our lives. There are times in life when we face difficulties, when things are not working for us, when no one seems to understand what you are going through. Smiling all through the day, but crying really hard at nights. Many of you could relate to it right? Thinking about the sad things all day long, thinking why we couldn’t share about our feelings, why we are so alone in this moment. We see around and think what a selfish world it is. But aren’t we the part of it ?
Have you ever taken a moment to think that how many times you gave a damn about what other people are going through. Seeing your colleagues sad, how many times you went up to them to ask if they were OK? How many times you asked your classmate if he was OK, when you see him low?
People are so busy in their own lives today that they barely care about what the next person is going through or what problems he is facing. But we cannot change all the people around, then why not start with our own self.
Being in my twenties, I had faced many of these situations in my life. I was 17 and not so happy with what was happening with my life. Everything seemed to be a disaster. Emotionally and physically that was the worst time I faced. When you are too broken, it is reflected on your face. My parents were the first to notice it, but I was not able to tell them what was the problem. A friend was needed at this time. And I was not lucky to have one.
I still remember that night when I was having 198 contacts on my phone but not even a single person I could rely on to make a call and share how I was feeling. I cried whole night, depressed and not knowing what to do, somehow I managed. That night I realized I had no one with me, but I was also thinking about all the other people who might me facing the same issue, may be worse. Now that was a time for me to choose. I could have thought that when no one cared about me, why should I ?
But no, they say “BE THE CHANGE YOU WISH TO SEE IN THE WORLD”. So, I decided that day that I will try to help as many people as I could and be there in the time of need. I wanted to be that 1 contact in their phone on which they could call anytime they feel low, alone and never feel the loneliness I faced. I never had a friend, then why not be someone’s friend. From that day, till today, if I ever even feel someone I know is sad, I walk up to them and ask if I could be of any help. Because this is the change I wish to see in the world. So I started it with myself.
There are always two choices in life: one is right and another is easy. WRONG is not an option, never was. It’s easy to choose easy but think about it, the impact it could make can really make a difference. Whenever you choose between such situations, try to choose what you wish to see. If you ever feel betrayed in friendship, you could either choose to betray them too OR you could choose that if you ever call somebody your friend, you will never cheat them. Remember, choose what you wish to see. Your choice can make a big difference.
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